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Chapter 5
Building Identity: Socialization
Self
The self is a
key element in individual identity. But what is the self? Many have theorized an answer,
but one explanation useful to sociology was set out by George Herbert Mead.
The philosopher William
James labeled the active source of behavior the "I" and the passive object of
behavior the "me": "I perceive me," or "I talk to me."1 Mead went one step further and described the "I"
and the "me" as alternating phases of every action that involves the self.2
Mead felt that the
"I" is the part of the self that responds directly to outside events. It is
impulsive and not subject to control at first. The "I" can be seen in situations
where we react spontaneously without assessing possible consequences of our actions. You
may have told yourself, for example, "It's such a beautiful day . . . the heck with
studying for this stupid sociology exam. I'm going to the beach!"
The "me," on the
other hand, represents society within the individual. It is the self-reflective,
conventional aspect of the self that incorporates society's values, norms, ideals, and
expectations. The "me" represents the internalization of the attitudes and group
standards of others. If you reconsider your beach trip in light of its possible outcome,
you are invoking the "me": "No, I'd better not go to the beach. I may fail
the exam and the course."
According to Mead, the
"I" and the "me" are alternating elements of a constant process of
thought and action. One moment we are responding directly to environmental stimuli. The
next moment we direct our conscious attention inward and become aware of our conduct:
"Wow, I can't believe how angry I am at Tom." This process allows us to alter
our behavior to bring it in line with social conventions ("I shouldn't be so angry at
him . . . I'll apologize and act like everything's OK"). Then this behavior becomes
the object of our own scrutiny ("I wonder if he thinks I'm still angry").
The ability to carry on
this internal dialogue lets us incorporate the perceptions and expectations of other
people. Sociologically, the crucial aspect of the self is that it allows us to transform,
modify, and control our behavior when we interact with people in various circumstances. As
we become aware that different people expect different things, we can tailor our behavior
to meet the demands of each situation.
1James, W. 1890. Principles of psychology. New York: Holt.
2Mead, G. H. 1934. Mind, self and society. Chicago:
University of Chicago Press.
David Newman and Rebecca Smith.
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